Why don’t I see myself as a woman?

I put together a cute outfit and love how it came out. Same with my eye makeup. Yet, I look in the mirror and although I certainly enjoy what I see more than without those changes, I still feel like it’s not… enough? I feel like it’s missing something or like what I’m hoping to see isn’t what I’m actually seeing. I don’t hate the way I look but I do wish I looked different. I guess I just don’t know what I’m expecting to change to fill that gap. Has anyone experienced this? What did you do to fill that gap?