Am I normal or not?

Hello. I am XYZ, 22M, INTJ, from India. There are some things going on in my mind, and I feel they make me different from others because I am unable to relate my psychology with the people around me. 1. I judge everyone and every single action around me until the point where I feel confident about what they actually mean. I always try to see them in both positive and negative ways. 2. I analyze patterns in people a lot, and since I can’t directly ask them, it leads to overthinking. 3. This is about relationships. I prioritize smartness and personality over beauty. I tend to connect more emotionally than just physically. It’s hard to find a girl and get to know her well, and understanding someone takes time. Nowadays, people want things fast, which leads me to being single. My friends think that I am gay because I don’t have anyone. 4. I can control my actions, decisions, and emotions, but I find it hard to control my 🌽 addiction. 5. I watch too many psycho/serial killer movies, not because I like them, but because I feel connected. However, I am not a psycho and don’t want to be like them. 6. I create images of people in my mind when I don’t know them very well.I even i start to know them with time i still convince myself that they are the same what I have prepared in my mind and they are hiding something There are many more things going on with me, but I believe they either happen once or occur again sometimes. Whatever I mentioned above might be hard to understand because it’s difficult to put these things into words. I tried my best to explain. If there is anyone who can help me, please reply or DM me.