Social Anxiety but W Rizz????

I have bad inattentive ADHD, most of us im sure have some sort of social anxiety. I (25M) have had basically all of my life, the inability to approach women. However, if a women is interested and initiates conversation and or I have a few beverages in the system, I’m kinda goated(???) I was never able to socialize with women until spoken to by a women and then for some reason everything was fine? It never made sense to me. This might not be the case if you are chopped (that is ok) lmk if this is relatable :)